Sunday, February 21, 2010

Cultural Training

There's a new law requiring teachers to go through some cultural training before the government gives them a work visa. My visa expires soon so I had to spend my weekend in cultural training. A lot of it I already knew from living here for 5 years. But it was good to clarify some things. I've always known Thais, and most Asians in general, have this thing about losing face. I never understood though, what this meant. Was it that they were embarrassed or didn't like being made fun of or teased? I now see it has more to do with being right and not being humbled by others. There were several situations presented to us and asked for how we would respond. Here's one situation we were presented with:

You are involved with helping to organize an English camp for 500 students. The director proposes to have the camp over the weekend to save costs and not affect regular classes. You disagree with that because the number of students per group will be too large for the camp to be effective in terms of language learning. Moreover, teachers will have to work hard continuously for 2 weeks without a day off which seems unacceptable for all teachers. But the director insists on these stipulations. How do you handle this?

Thai teachers would not raise a fuss, they would just go along with it. We discussed that we would give voice to these issues and raise a big fuss since this affects our performance and the students potential for learning.

It was also discussed that a Thai director does not necessarily respond to issues raised. Rather, they are more likely to demand their own way because the teachers raising the issues threatens their power. A western director is more likely to respond to the issues because they are interested in the welfare of the teachers and students. (Of course there are power hungry people in western countries, this is more based on culture.)

Another topic that was raised was the Thais viewpoint of their king. They have a deep rooted love for him and view him as a divine father. This is a fusion of Brahmanism and Buddhism. I found this information helpful in trying to understand their way of thinking with regards to worship. It's not based on reason. More based on tradition and their striving for good luck. These are not just ways of worship, it's their way of thinking. So becoming a JW for a Thai entails huge changes and they have a lot of opposition because it's their culture, not just a belief. Interesting...

Thinking about all that gives me such an appreciation for knowing the truth. I also value having the opportunity of living here and being exposed to such different ways of thinking. Not that it influences me, but it gives me a wider understanding of people in general and how diverse we all are. I know it sounds abstract, it's hard to express. My point is that I like learning how people think and how that contrasts with how my culture thinks. This is the same reason I loved the James Michener book I read about Afghanistan. I'm starting another book of his called Iberia. It's all about his travels through Spain.

4 comments:

Athens Runner Girl said...

My questions with thes types of things is: how do you adapt? For instance in the issue with the director--is there a way to broach the subject without the director feeling they are losing face? Is it just a matter of acceptance that things are done differently? A bit of both? Although most of us want to accept cultural differences and we realize on a mental level that people do things differently and that the way we do them isn't necessarily the "right" way--in practice I think it is a bit more stressful/difficult. It sneaks up on you sometimes.

Jules said...

My conclusion is acceptance. Trying to make a point of our perspective is not productive. They would tell me to go back to the States. I'm in Thailand and came on my own accord. This is hard to swallow, especially when I'm convinced my way of thinking is right (haha). But putting energy into voicing my opinion is a waste. It's very stressful and you feel like banging your head into a wall. But in the end they will get their way or I'll be out of the job.

The other thing that happens is you voice your opinion and they nod as if they're really listening to you. They don't say no so you feel like you've been heard and understood. But in the end nothing changes. So you still end up disappointed.

What I've learned: you just gotta accept it and deal with it. It's annoying but it's more annoying to waste time and energy when it has no impact. Then I treat myself to an imported beer!

Maikuts said...

that was interesting.beer imported from where

Athens Runner Girl said...

I'm going to make an educated guess as to WHICH Maikut made the last comment. Although I know that Belle has been using the computer lately, I'm still betting on dad.